I never intended to look up my potential due date for our one and only pregnancy. However, my friend did for us. I forgot when exactly, but knew that it’d be in October some time. Isn’t it October now? The other day, Bob asked, “Wouldn’t our baby be due soon if the pregnancy had progressed?” As I stared at the TV screen, my eyes felt a little warm and tears were brewing. They didn’t come down though. I can’t believe it’s time for our due date already. Has it been so many months already? I went back to the online chat conversation I had with my friend and found out the exact date. The due date would have been October 29th. Although it’s a little sad and my heart hurts a little, it’s also strangely comforting to know exactly what the due date would have been. Today is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day. It’s so fitting to honor this brief yet important pregnancy today.
Another dear friend of mine sent me a picture that says:
I remember the day,
I remember your loss,
I remember your sadness,
I remember your baby.
Thinking of you.
I thanked her and mentioned that my due date would have been October 29th.
She wrote: “I know. It’s in my calendar.”
I am so grateful for a friend who cares so much that she wrote it down and remembered. It’s important to me that this pregnancy is not forgotten.
I will not forget.
That is the kindest thing I’ve ever read. What a good friend. So many hugs lovely xx
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Thinking about you and your angel hon. That poem is beautiful. So glad you such a good drown supporting you. Hugs.
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Your friend sounds amazing. Even though you’ve gone through so much pain, you’re so blessed to have a friend like that. Xo
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Can I steal your friend?
What an amazing person and what a wonderful support she is to you. I’m so glad you are surrounded by so much love xxx
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I had three due dates in 2014. March 2014, June 2014 and Nov. 2014. The third time was the charm and I’m 8 mos along now. I still get updates from the March 2014 Babies group on some online message board. I kept “unsubscribing” and FINALLY it stopped. Every day I was getting these “updates” in my email. EVERY day it hurt. Never give up!
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She sounds like an awesome friend.
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Hugs hugs hugs ( I want to add for humors sake that somehow hugs hugs got autocorrected to gym yoga….)
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Ha! That cracked me up. 🙂 Thanks for the hugs!!!
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These days really hurt. thinking of you.
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What a sweet friend to remember! Thinking of you.
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Thinking of you. So important to acknowledge these moments.
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That’s so sweet of your friend, so thoughtful.
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Hugs. I know.
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What an amazing friend. These due dates are so hard, and I really feel like the majority of my friends and family don’t view these as real, but they are so very real to those who have experienced the loss. Hugs to you.
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