The breast scare turned out to be nothing serious. Such a relief. Praise the Lord!
Yesterday’s visit with the doctor at the Breast Health Clinic already gave me good news. The night before the appointment, I couldn’t even find the lump that was on my right breast. I touched and searched and it was just not there. The bigger and more solid one on the left was still there. God answered my prayers by keeping me at peace with this whole thing. I went into the appointment feeling calm. And I really appreciated the doctor’s bedside manner. She really put me at ease. I will call her Dr. Calm. After I told her about my fertility treatment, she shared with me her own infertility journey. We chatted the whole way through the clinical exam and the ultrasound.
Dr. Calm told me that she went through many rounds of IVF before she finally got pregnant with her twins. She spotted my pendant that says “Hope” and told me a story. While they were still in the thick of it, her husband told her that if they have a girl in the future, he’d name her Hope. And Dr. Calm finally got pregnant with boy/girl twins. And her daughter’s middle name IS Hope. We also chatted about her husband being the only child in a traditional Chinese family so the pressure was on from her father-in-law for her to make some boys. She was very touched when her mother-in-law told her that she’d be equally happen if Dr. Calm was carrying twin girls.
While we were chatting about all this, she carefully palpated my breasts. And she also couldn’t locate the small lump on the right breast. She was quite sure that it was a cyst if it came and went so quickly. She could really feel the bigger, more solid lump on the left breast. She commented that it felt very mobile and oval. So those were also good signs. The ultrasound image showed a dark oval which looked to her like a cyst as well. However, she said it looked like a cluster of cysts rather than just one cyst. Just to be sure, she wanted to send me to get a diagnostic ultrasound because her simple bedside ultrasound couldn’t show the depth of the mass. She said that there was nothing to worry about, but clinically she wanted to make sure that there was nothing hiding below the cyst/cluster of cysts. She also ordered for a mammogram since the last one was done two years ago.
Dr. Calm then told me an encouraging story about egg donation and surrogacy. A college friend of hers couldn’t get pregnant and was advised not to carry on her own. She did both DE and surrogacy and had twins around the same time my doctor did. The two sets of twins grew up together and are best friends. She said that her friend is blonde with blue eyes so the donor was as well. Mixed with her husband of Egyptian descent, my doctor said that the twins looked just like her friend. Dr. Calm said that she was very hopeful for me for bringing home a baby.
Today I had a busy day running to the radiology department two separate times from work. The mammogram itself was not so much painful but uncomfortable after being squeezed, moved, turned and told to hold my breath. The entertainment came from the technician who was also Indian and chatted with me about all things Indian including food, customs, and in-laws. The afternoon appointment was for the diagnostic ultrasound with a more powerful machine than yesterday’s. The ultrasound tech took many images of my left lump. Afterwards, a very eloquent doctor came in to talk to me. She looked at my mammogram images and saw that I did have a mass. But she didn’t think it was anything serious as it looked like a cyst to her. I lay down again for her to feel the lump. She looked at the ultrasound images that the tech had taken and told me that it looked like there was one bigger cyst in one location and a bunch of smaller ones in another location. They are nothing to be worried about. They don’t increase the risk of cancer and they come with the fluctuation of hormones. Sometimes they go away depending on the hormonal level in the body, like the little one on my right side. Although the guidelines for mammogram have changed from over 40 to over 50, she’d still recommend an annual one from 40 on. The only disadvantage is a false positive that may cause a bit of anxiety, but the advantage is that it does catch cancer and save lives. She wants me to know that having cysts does not mean the risk of having cancer is diminished. So I have to know what these lumps feel like. If there are any changes that are out of the ordinary, I should still seek help. I think from now on I’ll have a mammogram on a yearly basis just to be sure.
It’s such a blessing to be healthy. I am so grateful that this is nothing more than discomfort and soreness. Now I can focus on other important things in life and won’t be distracted by this health scare anymore.